Understanding Pornography Addiction
Pornography addiction is a growing concern that can deeply affect relationships, self-esteem, motivation, and mental health. In our hyper-connected world, access to explicit content is easier than ever.
Recovery, isn’t just about quitting a behaviour — it’s about addressing the underlying stress, loneliness, or emotional pain that fuels it, and rebuilding a healthy sense of connection, intimacy, and self-worth.
For some, what begins as curiosity or stress relief can gradually develop into a pattern of compulsive use. When this happens, people often find themselves caught between shame, secrecy, and a genuine desire to regain control. Dr Andrew Huberman and trauma specialist Ryan Soave explore in their discussions how brain chemistry, reward pathways, and emotional regulation all play a role in the cycle of addiction.
Dr. Andrew Huberman and Ryan Soave discuss the neurological impact of pornography addiction, why shame keeps people trapped in the cycle, and offer practical steps to help individuals break free from porn and rebuild healthy intimacy.
Ryan Soave, LMHC, is a leading expert in addiction recovery with extensive experience helping people heal from all types of substance and behavioral dependencies. Dr. Andrew Huberman is a tenured professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford University School of Medicine and host of the Huberman Lab podcast.
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My guest is Ryan Soave, LMHC, a leading expert in addiction recovery with extensive experience helping people heal from all types of substance and behavioral dependencies. We discuss actionable tools for breaking out of the addictive cycle and staying free of obsessions and compulsions. We also examine the relationship between trauma and addiction.
We explore the full recovery process—from detoxing and physical stabilization to building distress tolerance. We review evidence-supported tools to structure your life at each stage of recovery and highlight the power of learning “self-directed state shifting” through yoga nidra (NSDR), breathwork, meditation and prayer.
We explain how to recognize signs of addiction in yourself and others, and the treatment options available across all levels of resources, from residential programs to 12-step. If you or someone you know is struggling with any kind of addiction, this episode offers practical steps to break free and stay free.
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